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“You will not arise to the occasion—you will fall to the level of your training.” - Jay “Packy” Dempsey
WATCH AS MY K-9 SAVES MY LIFE
All Caught On Dash Camera
YOUR WHOLE LIFE CAN BOIL DOWN TO A 4-SECOND DECISION
(This is one of few documented cases where a backup weapon is used to save an officer’s life on video.)
Why Packy?
Packy brings something rare to a room: credibility forged in real heat, and humility forged in the aftermath.
He speaks from a place where identity was tested, fear was uninvited, and where four seconds can completely re-write your life. Through The Fastest 4 Seconds book and his live teaching, Packy helps men’s groups and police academies learn from his mistakes, name what is happening inside them under pressure, then helps to build a steadier core that holds when adrenaline spikes and consequences are permanent.
What I Teach At My Events:
✓ Identity under pressure: Helping to separate who they are from what they do, and anchoring identity so failures, fear, and public opinion do not become the definition. Your whole life can boil down to 4 seconds, and I have the proof.
✓ Split-second decision making: Training the mind to operate in compressed timelines by reinforcing situational awareness, threat recognition, and disciplined action when emotions spike.
✓ A bridge between toughness and tenderness: Giving permission to be strong and honest, not performing invincibility, but building durable character and real comradery.
✓ Resiliency: Practical tools for recovering after high-stress moments, including naming trauma responses, addressing shame, and choosing healthy support instead of isolation.
✓ The aftermath matters: Preparing leaders and recruits for what comes after the incident, investigations, second-guessing and family strain. Post-traumatic stress, addictions, and the mental battles that often go undiagnosed.
✓ Faith and redemption without fluff: A clear testimony of God’s work through crisis, consequences, and restoration, offering hope that does not ignore the cost.
Contact me
Use the form to start a conversation about your event. I design sessions that are practical and high-impact—focused on identity, integrity, leadership under pressure, and the habits that turn good intentions into real change. Tell me about your group, your goals, and your timeline, and we’ll shape a session that fits.
Men’s groups
Hosting a men’s night, retreat, or conference? I equip men with a clear identity, honest accountability, and a battle-ready faith that shows up in real life—at home, at work, and under pressure. Share a few details in the form and let’s tailor a talk or workshop for your guys.
Law enforcement training
For agencies and academies, I deliver mission-focused training on resilience, decision-making under stress, leadership, and after-action mindset. Whether it’s roll call, in-service, or a full workshop, use the form to outline your needs and let’s talk.
My Training Course is A.P.O.S.T Certified.
Identity, Resiliency, and Split-Second Decision Making under pressure.